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"It's hard to be humble," says an old country song, "when you're perfect in every way." Of course, few people actually think they're perfect in every way. But it can still be pretty hard to be humble, especially if you live in a society that encourages competition and individuality.


Yet even in such a culture, humility remains an important virtue. Learning to be humble is of paramount importance in most spiritual traditions, and humility can help you develop more fully and enjoy richer relationships with others, as well as create opportunities and earn you respect.


Part 1 of 3: Accepting Your Limitations

1 Admit that you're not the best at everything -- or anything. No matter how talented you are, there is almost always somebody who can do something better than you. Look to those who are better and consider the potential for improvement. Nobody is the best at something.


          • Even if you are 'the best' in the world at doing one thing, there are always other things that you cannot do, and may never be able to do.


          • Recognizing your limitations does not mean abandoning your dreams, and it does not mean giving up on learning new things or improving your existing abilities. It simply means acknowledging that, as human beings, none of us are perfect and none of us can do everything by ourselves.


  Nobody is perfect.

2 Recognize your own faults. We judge others because it's a lot easier than looking at ourselves. Unfortunately, it's also completely unproductive and, in many cases, harmful. Judging others causes strife in relationships, and it prevents new relationships from forming. Perhaps even worse, it prevents us from trying to improve ourselves. Everybody makes mistakes.


          • We make judgments about others all the time, usually without even realizing it. As a practical exercise, try to catch yourself in the act of judging another person or group of people, and whenever you do, judge yourself instead. Consider how you can improve yourself, instead of how you think others should act. After all, you cannot control other people's decisions and behaviors - but you can control yours.


          • Work to address your flaws. Remember that growth and improvement is a lifelong process that never stops happening, even when you're very skilled at something.




3 Be grateful for what you have. Suppose you graduate from an Ivy League university at the top of your class. You definitely deserve a lot of credit for the many hours of studying and for your perseverance. Consider though, that there is someone just as intelligent and hardworking as you who had less supportive parents, grew up in a different place, or just made one wrong choice in life. You could be in their position instead.


          • Always remember that with a bad choice yesterday, your whole life could be different today and, furthermore, that today could be the day your good choices change your life.


          • Though you have undoubtedly worked hard for what you have, you could not have done it all without other people's support. Everything we do is a result of what many other people have done to us. It is all because of the people around us that we get shaped and become better persons at some point so that we could achieve our goals.



4 Don't be afraid to make mistakes. Part of being humble is understanding that you will make mistakes. Understand this, and understand that everyone else makes mistakes, and you will have a heavy burden lifted off of you. However, this doesn't mean that you should be sloppy - try to avoid obvious mistakes, but don't be afraid to try new methods or ways of accomplishing your goals.


          • Each person can only experience a tiny sliver of life at a time. There will always be people who are older and wiser than you. Your elders' opinions could be worth listening to, although you must make the decision based on your knowledge of them.



Everyone makes mistakes.


5 Admit your mistakes. Although you may fear that people will be angry and frustrated with you, it is always better to admit than to cover it up. Whether you've made a mistake as a boss, parent, or friend, people will appreciate the fact that you're willing to admit that you're not perfect and that you're working to improve yourself and the situation. Admitting your mistakes shows that you're not stubborn, selfish, or unwilling to not look perfect.


          • Admitting your mistakes will make people respect you more, whether they are your own children or your coworkers.



6 Avoid bragging. It's okay to have a healthy self-esteem and to feel proud of your accomplishments, but nobody likes it when someone constantly tries to bring attention to themselves and their own achievements. If you feel like you really have done something great, chances are people will have already begun to notice that, and they will come to respect you even more for your humility.


          • This doesn't mean you should lie about achieving something; if someone asked if you ran a marathon then it's perfectly acceptable to say 'yes'. But don't constantly talk about how absolutely amazing you were for running the marathon, or achieving other goals.



7 Be considerate in conversations. Humble people don't have to be meek wallflowers - being humble doesn't mean not having any self-esteem. However, a humble person should be mindful of everyone in the conversation and shouldn't talk down or disrupt anyone. As a humble person, you should recognize that everyone, including you, has their own goals and dreams and they may want to talk about their achievements and their opinions on things.



8 Don't take all the credit. We are human beings and who we are now has a lot to do with other people's influence and guidance. Countless people have given you support and helped you to become the person you are so that you can achieve your dreams. It's totally fine to be proud about your achievements, but keep in mind that nobody ever does anything totally by themselves, and that as people, we are all helping each other to accomplish our goals.


          • Share the love. Recognize others who have helped you on your path to success.





Part 2 of 3: Appreciating Others

1 Appreciate the talents and qualities of others. Challenge yourself to look at others and appreciate the things they can do and, more generally, to appreciate people for who they are. Understand that everybody is different and relish the chance you have to experience different people. You will still have your personal tastes, your likes and dislikes, but train yourself to separate your opinions from your fears and you will appreciate others more - you will be more humble as well.


          • Being able to appreciate the talents and qualities of other people can also make you recognize qualities that you want to improve or attain within yourself.



2 Stop comparing yourself to others. While competition can be healthy and stimulating, it's nearly impossible to be humble when we're constantly striving to be the "best" or trying to be better than others. Instead, try looking at yourself more. Remember, the ultimate goal isn't to be better than anyone else, it's to be better than the person you used to be. When you focus your energy on improving yourself instead of comparing you to everyone else, you'll find that it is much easier to make yourself better since you don't have to worry about whether or not you're better or worse than anyone.


          • Every individual is unique. Appreciate people for who they are as human beings, not for their skills and appearance in relation to yours.



3 Don't be afraid to defer to others' judgment. Although it is ultimately up to you to decide if you were right or wrong, it is a whole different thing to acknowledge that you make mistakes and that you're not always right. Somewhat more difficult however, is the ability to acknowledge that in many cases other people — even people who disagree with you — may be right. Deferring to your spouse's wishes, to a law you don't agree with, or even, sometimes, to your child's opinion takes your recognition of your limitations to a different level.


          • Instead of simply saying you are humble and as a person you will make mistakes, you should also concentrate on living with that mindset - being humble is a way of life, not a one-time action.



4 Seek guidance from written texts. This is another way of appreciating others. Contemplate moral texts and proverbs about humility. Pray for it, meditate on it, do whatever it takes to get your attention off yourself and your perception of your own worth (especially compared to others). You can read inspiring biographies, memoirs, the Bible, nonfiction and fiction on how to improve your life, or whatever it is that makes you be more humble and appreciate the insight that others have to offer.


          • If you're not into spirituality, consider the scientific method. Science requires humility. It requires that you let go of your preconceived notions and judgments and understand that you don't know as much as you think you do.



5 Remain teachable. Nobody is perfect or the best at anything. There will always be people who are better at you at something, and therein lies the opportunity to learn from them. Find people you aspire to be like in certain areas, and ask them to mentor you. Under mentorship; good boundary setting, confidentiality and discernment is required. As soon as you cross the line of being 'unteachable', bring yourself back down to earth again. Being teachable means that you admit that you always have more to learn about life.


          • You can be more humble by taking classes in something you know nothing about, such as pottery or screen writing, and knowing that you will let others teach you and show you the way. This can help you realize that everyone is good at different things and we all need to help each other in order to become better people.



6 Help others. A big part of being humble is respecting others, and part of respecting others is helping them. Treat other people as equals and help them because it is the right thing to do. It's been said that when you can help others who cannot possibly help you in return, you have learned humility. Helping people in need will also make you appreciate what you have even more.


          • It goes without saying: don't boast about the volunteering you've done. It's great if you're proud of your work, but remember: volunteering is not about you, it is about the people you have helped.



7 Go last. If you're always rushing to get things done first and get to the front of the line, challenge yourself to allow others to go before you - for example, elders, disabled people, children, or people in a hurry.


          • Ask yourself, "Do I really need to do this first so badly?" The answer will almost always be no.




8 Compliment others. Give someone you love, or even someone you barely know, a compliment. Tell your partner that he/she looks great today; compliment your co-worker's new hairdo, or tell the cashier at the grocery store that you like her earrings. Or you can go deeper, and compliment important aspects of people's personalities. Give at least one compliment a day and you will see that other people have so much to offer to the world.


          • Focus on the positive attributes of others instead of always looking for their flaws.



9 Apologize. If you've made a mistake, then confess and admit that you're wrong. Even though saying you're sorry to someone else is painful, you'll have to get over your pride and tell another person that you're sorry for the harm you've done. Eventually the pain will subside, replaced by a feeling of relief because you know that you have made amends. This will show the person that you value him or her greatly and that you acknowledge that you've made a mistake.

          • Make eye contact when you apologize to show that you really care.

          • Don't be a repeat offender. Apologizing about something does not give you a license to do it again. Doing so will make people distrusting of you and what you say.



10 Listen more than you talk. This is another great way of appreciating others more and being more humble. The next time you engage in a conversation, let the other person talk, don't interrupt, and ask questions to keep the person talking and sharing. Though you should contribute to the conversation, make a habit of letting others express themselves more than you do so you don't act like you're only concerned with the things that are going on in your life.

          • Ask questions to show that you understand what the person is talking about. Don't just wait for the person to stop talking so that you can start talking. Remember, if you're busy thinking about what you want to say, then you'll have a harder time focusing on what they are saying.



Part 3 of 3: Rediscovering a Sense of Wonder

1 Rejuvenate your sense of wonder. Because we as individuals know very little about the world, you'd expect that we'd be awestruck more often than we typically are. Children have this sense of wonder, and it inspires the curiosity that makes them such keen observers and capable learners. Do you really know how your microwave works? Could you build one on your own? What about your car? Understand your brain? A rose?

          • The jaded, "I've seen it all" attitude makes us feel far more important than we are. Nobody has seen it all - nobody knows it all. Be amazed like a child and you will not only be humbled; you will also be readier to learn.


2 Practice gentleness. Gentleness of spirit is the sure path to humility. Use 'Aikido' where possible when faced with conflict: absorb the venom from others' attacks and turn it into something positive by trying to understand why they are angry and reacting with gentleness and respect. Practicing gentleness will help you rediscover your sense of wonder as you focus on the positive aspects of life.



Spend more time in nature

3 Spend more time in nature. Go take a walk in the park. Stand near the bottom of a waterfall. Look at the world from the top of a mountain. Go for a long hike. Swim in an ocean. Find your own way of being in nature and take the time to truly appreciate all that it entails. Close your eyes and feel the breeze on your face. You should feel completely humbled by nature - a force that is so immense in its depth and power. As you develop your wonder and respect for all of the things that were there long before you were and which will be there long after you are gone, you will began to realize just how small you are in this world.

          • Spending more time in nature will make you see how big and complicated the world is -- and that you're not at the center of it.



A woman doing a meditation  

4 Do yoga. Yoga is the practice of love and gratitude, and it will make you develop your sense of wonder about your breath, your body, and the love and kindness in the world around you. Yoga makes you see how fleeting your time on earth is and to appreciate it even more. Make a habit of practicing yoga at least twice a week and reap all of the emotional benefits as well as the physical ones.

          • Yoga is all about being humble. There is no such thing as bragging about how you've hit a new pose in yoga. It's all about doing everything at your own pace.



Yoga is all about being humble.

Do yoga  


Do yoga  


5 Spend time around children. Children possess a sense of wonder at the world that is difficult to replicate as an adult. Spend more time around kids and see how they appreciate the world, are constantly questioning it, and how they get pleasure and joy out of the smallest and most mundane things. To a child, a flower or a toilet paper roll can be the most incredible thing in the world -- for an afternoon, anyway.

          • Spending more time around children will remind you of how magical the world really is.




• Ask questions when you don't know, when you know a little, and when you think you know it all.

• Never brag about what you have ~ give to receive.

• It is fine to talk about yourself a little, but make a conscious effort to ask people about themselves too. It's also a good idea to listen more when you are being talked/responded to.

• Be kind and considerate. Help others and tell them you there for them.

• Appreciate your talents. Being humble doesn't mean you can't feel good about yourself. Self-esteem is not the same as pride. Both come from a recognition of your own talents and qualities, but pride, the kind of pride that leans toward arrogance, is rooted in insecurity about yourself. Think about the abilities you have, and be thankful for them.

• Seek trusted and wise counsel and obtain accountability partners if you find this to be a weakness in your life. Pride comes before the fall, and prevention is definitely better than cure.

• Learn to admit when you are wrong and don't allow your pride to allow you to feel that your actions are justified...

• Keep in mind that being humble has many benefits. Humility can help you be more content with your life, and it can also help you endure bad times and improve your relationships with others. It's also essential to being an effective learner. If you think you know it all, you won't be open-minded enough to seek out new knowledge. Humility is also, somewhat counter-intuitively, an excellent tool for self-development in general. After all, if you feel superior, you have no incentive to improve. Most of all, being humble allows you to be honest with yourself.

• Be loving and kind-hearted at all times,you never know when someone might need to reach out to you.

• Living a selfless life brings more satisfaction than living a selfish one.

• Before you think about yourself,think about someone else.First think of being a need to someone instead of you needing someone.

• Associate with and help out people, especially the poor, weak, etc.




• Similarly, don't confuse being humble with being sycophantic (being overly-praiseful of someone for your own profit). This is a common misconception, but the two attitudes are completely different.

• While a bit of humility is a good thing, don't take it too far, thus becoming a doormat. Remember, everything in moderation.

• To be humble isn't the same as being humble, and often people who pretend to be humble do it in order to seek out praise. Other people will recognize this, and even if you fool some, you won't derive the same benefits as you would through actually developing humility.

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77 Likes 7 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by mperoakeem(m):10:48pm On Mar 19, 2015hope they are not rented sha...

7 Likes 3 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by DrLee(m):10:49pm On Mar 19,
2015if only all this crowd will vote for him
20 LikesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu
(photos) by chaberry(m):10:50pm On Mar 19, 2015GEJ TILL 2091,
SORRY 2019
63 LikesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally,
Damaturu (photos) by Abduletudaye(m) :10:51pm On Mar 19,
Re: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by Collynzo419:10:52pm On Mar 19,
2015Very colorful pictures from the outgoing president's
farewell tour of a region that he ignored throughout his 6 years in office.

Jonathan is complicit in the massive loss of lives and property in the North of Nigeria.
Posterity will remember GEJ as a callous, wicked and corrupt president who misused the trust
Nigerians had in him to fund a careless, drunken and reckless lifestyle.

No amount of dollarisation will make any of those people vote for him.

I don't know how they can call this a rally- total attendance of less than 100 people?


Change in government is a done deal and Nigerians
will deliver the outcome on March 28

Sai Buhari
177 Likes 9 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by chaberry(m):10:
52pm On Mar 19, 2015Firefire:
Good one

See fresh and vibrant Nigeria President till 2019
28 Likes 2 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by henryangelo:11:
00pm On Mar 19, 2015This is real,APC and Buhari should be singing
I surrender I surrender all
I must follow the train of transformation and
no old man can stop that
25 Likes 2 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by MzJackBaueress( f):11:
04pm On Mar 19, 2015They only came to see the president who is destroying their state using
boko haram. They will massively vote for Buhari.

Sai Buhari!
72 Likes 3 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu
(photos) by lamako(m):11:05pm On Mar 19, 2015Where are the crowd na.

is this the only number of people that PDP can pay .
Haba, or dey don start to do corruption among themselves, 21 billion can hire
more than this nah.

vote out GEJ
vote for change
vote Buhari to save Nigeria
101 Likes 3 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally,
Damaturu (photos) by mrborntodoit:11:07pm On Mar 19, 2015^^

The dunce above me is a propaganda specialist, no atom of facts in his accusations!

Be a patriotic Nigerian!!

Vote for continuity of transformation !!!

Gej all the way !!!!
28 Likes 5 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by Ahmed4002(m):11:07pm On Mar 19, 2015Buhari and Osibanjo please rewind and take us back
when American dollar respect and salute Nigwria Naira.
One dollar same as One Naira.
Mr president please dollar @ 230 naira is okay.
we don die finish. Please allow GMB to take us back when corrupted people end
in jail not receive national merit. Allow Buhari to take us back when corruption was at Zero level not as stealing is not corruption.

Farewell to people of Yobe.
standing ovation for you Mr president.
Thank you. We wish you safe canoe sailing back to Otueke.

53 Likes 1 ShareRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu
(photos) by NgeneUkwenu(f): 11:11pm On Mar 19, 2015I watched
it live on TV. The Stadium was so scanty that the cameramen struggled so hard to pick human beings!
Jonathan has finished himself!
63 Likes 3 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by NgeneUkwenu(f): 11:
13pm On Mar 19, 2015lamako:
Where are the crowd na.
is this the only number of people that PDP can pay
Haba, or dey don start to do corruption among themselves, 21 billion can hire more than this nah.

vote out GEJ
vote for change
vote Buhari to save Nigeria

It took Abati more than 10 hours after the rally to edit the pictures
yet this is what he can come up ! I dey really pity jona the drunkard!

47 Likes 2 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by nakamora:
11:15pm On Mar 19, 2015This few people called crowd are happy because of the father Christmas
in their mist.They are here to have a share of the money spray.

21 Likes 3 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by
OLADD:11:22pm On Mar 19, 2015NgeneUkwenu:
I watched it live on TV. The Stadium was so scanty that the cameramen struggled so hard to pick human beings!
Jonathan has finished himself!

Didn't you hear about Boko haram attack on a PDP campaign venue
immediately after the president's departure last month?
Many people must have been scared away but that will not stop them from voting GEJ next
14 Likes 2 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally,
Damaturu (photos) by san316(m):11:24pm On Mar 19, 2015GEJ should just focus on Lagos.
he ain't getting shieeet in the north . waste of valuable gym.

9 Likes 1 ShareRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally,
Damaturu (photos) by Bonapart(m):12:24am On Mar 20, 2015Northerners crazy for Jonathan.
#givebuhariacha nce
2 LikesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by omanifrank(m):12:24am
On Mar 20, 2015yea
Re: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by Elusive9(f):12:26am On Mar 20, 2015
Re: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by jliusadura(m):
12:27am On Mar 20, 2015Plenty crowd
1 LikeRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by januzaj(m):12:
29am On Mar 20, 2015sai Buhari
26 Likes 2 SharesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by
oakson:12:30am On Mar 20, 2015seems gej as signed an 100years deal with ugliness no matter the photoshopping jam
make up he no dey ever fine rich jagaban borgu
Pej what's happening?
Sai Buhari
11 LikesRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by parzdor(m):
12:30am On Mar 20, 2015ff
Re: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by Hawlahscho(m):
12:31am On Mar 20, 2015OK
Re: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by shakaTheZulu:
12:33am On Mar 20, 2015MzJackBaueress :
They only came to see the president who is destroying their state
using boko haram. They will massively vote for Buhari.

Sai Buhari!

Nope they came to pledge their votes to him and reject the illiterate terrorist general
Buhari Because
Buhari is a terrorist
Apc Is bokoharam
Gej till 2019
8 Likes 1 ShareRe: PDP Presidential Campaign Rally, Damaturu (photos) by Nobody:12:
34am On Mar 20, 2015See how everybody is looking so healthy and fresh
Not like the chikpored looks of osibanjo and oshiomole
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